Tips to Seduce and Impress

Tips to Seduce and Impress

It's something that every guy wants to know how to do - seduce and impress a girl. Most guys don't have a clue how to go about it. They use what they see in movies and end up boring the woman and even turning her off sometimes.

Here are some tips me and my PUA friends have found to be successful and will help you in your efforts to seduce and impress:

Seduce and Impress - Tip #1 Don't Try Too Hard
It is very important to adopt a nonchalant attitude around women. You don't want to have your desperate light on and you don't want to look like you are trying too hard. You want to cultivate an aura of effortlessness. I don't care if you practiced what you were going to say 100 times in front of the mirror that morning, when you are with the woman, I want it to appear as if you are just a natural and aren't trying to impress her or seduce her at all.

Seduce and Impress - Tip #2 Less is More
When it comes to seduction, less is more. For instance, you don't want to grope her. Instead, you want to lightly and gently touch her back or her neck. You don't want to babble on about how sexy she is nonstop, but you want to place a few well-timed compliments in a low voice for the most effectiveness.

Instead of bragging about how much money you have or how great a car you have, don't say anything and let her find out for herself all the things that make you a great catch. Don't tell her what a good guy you are. Instead, let her observe and make that judgment on her own. It will be more powerful and meaningful that way.

Seduce and Impress - Tip #3 Be Creative
Any guy can try to impress a girl by taking her to a fancy restaurant or nightclub and spending a lot of money. Instead, impress and seduce her by thinking of something creative and fun. That will work much better and be more effective in capturing her attention and interest.

For instance, pack a picnic lunch of delicacies, such as fine wine, caviar, cheese, crackers, and grapes and spread a blanket out on the beach under a full moon. Do something different and unexpected that takes a bit of creativity and you will seduce and impress her way more than if you just do the typical things that other men are doing.

Seduce and Impress - Tip #4 Set the Mood
Too many guys bring a girl home to their messy, filthy apartment and think they have a chance at seduction. If you want to seduce and impress, take a little time to set a mood and create some ambiance. It doesn't take expensive furnishings, just a little time. Clean your place, light some candles, pick some seductive music, and have a bottle of wine chilling.

Little touches like that can make all the difference in the world when you want to know How to Seduce a Girl.

If you follow these four tips to seduce and impress a girl, you will be ahead of the game.

About the Author
Bill Preston has been studying Flirting Tips for the last 5 years in NYC. The original article can be found here: Tips To Seduce And Impress.