|Fri, 2 Dec 2011 13:41:50
Why doesn't he call? This is the reasonable reaction divorced women have as they start dating again and don't get the response they want from the new love interest in their life.
Here are 5 reasons why those initial encounters don't add up to something more serious, and how to deal with disappointment.
Reason #1: He’s Having Trouble Being Honest… He is Seeing Someone!
Let’s face this is part of dating game. You are dating, he is dating. Often we meet and hit it off, trade numbers, talk for a while or trade emails, but he never seems to make the initiative to actually see you; then something else is going on. Men often have a hard time sharing the truth about their feelings. It very well could be he is seeing someone else.
Reason #2: He Was Just Looking for a Hookup
Although it seems like he really liked you, he really could be more interested in a casual encounter and senses you’re not that kind of girl. He’ll move on – maybe out of respect for you or his own selfish desires (you could be too much work). In either case, the timing is off. Not calling you back is his way of letting you know where he’s at without having to say it directly. Take heart; in this case he’s actually did you a favor for not calling.
Reason #3: He Was Just Being Nice
He may have enjoyed the conversation with you but really he is not interested in anything more. He asked for your number to be polite. Let’s face it we as women have given out our number hoping all along that he would not call or better yet we gave someone the wrong number to avoid talking to him again.
Reason #4: He Lost Interest
He was interested in you at first, but something happened along the way to change his mind…he went home…took a shower. Let’s face it he is just not that into you!
Reason #5: He Lost Your Number or Forgot to Call
Yes, sometimes this really happens. He lost your number, washed it in his jeans, his dog ate it, etc.
What we should do when he doesn’t call…..
Let Sleeping Dogs Lie - Don't interfere. Don’t call him! Sometimes we women like to follow up, but I think we will get our answer a lot quicker if we observe his (non-) behavior. Actions speak louder than words. Don't push or prod — even if you're just being casual or friendly. Just sit back and watch, he'll reveal how he truly feels. When a man is romantically interested in you, he will step up, it's really simple: just ignore everything they say, and only pay attention to what they do.
Don't analyze. You may never know why he didn’t call, but the reality is you do have all the information you need. He just isn’t the ONE!
Remember the saying…Noting Ventured Nothing Gained. It is his loss! For whatever reason he didn’t call, don’t second-guess yourself as his not calling has nothing to do with you but everything to do with him. He just may have done you a favor. You want a man to follow through, to step out of the box.
Keep your options open. The old saying you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your Prince is true. Keep your options open, practice dating. Dating can be fun! Surround yourself with what makes you happy as this is the biggest attraction of all. Keep your heart and mind open and when you least expect it he will step forward!
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|Wed, 2 Nov 2011 18:12:49
I am interested in hearing your dating experiences. Hope they are all wonderful but do want to hear the good the bad and the ugly!
I do want to share a site that will help you avoid the online romeo scams...
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These men and women will take about 5 weeks to convince you they are marriage material then ask for money.
1. Have one child
2. Lost a loved one
3. Well educated
4. interested in your finances (huge red flag)
5. They operate out of Nigeria or London
6. Will empty our pockets in small amounts at first then keep on sucking you dry.
7. Same religion as you are.
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|Sat, 18 Jun 2011 6:39:07
How Your Pet Dog Can Help You Get Dates - Did you know that Fido can help you get dates? How you ask. People, married or single, like to take their pets with them wherever they go. To meet other single pet owners, take your dog to local dog parks, dog-friendly restaurants and bars, or go to a 'Yappy Hour' in your neighborhood. What is a Yappy Hour? A Yappy Hour is a Happy Hour for dogs and their owners. If their are none in your area, start one!